On our recent flight to FL, I watched the film All the President’s Men. Released in 1976, it’s a fascinating look at Washington Post reporters Carl Bernstein and Bob Woodward’s investigative research while uncovering the Watergate break-ins.
Their work included no Google, no cell phones, no Internet. Their tools were personal connections, rotary phones, typewriters, phone booths, hard-copy library check out cards, stacks of paper in offices, suits and ties for 2 am meetings, lunchtime Thermos drinks, Rolodex, smoking in offices-elevators-apartments- everywhere, searching through phone books of many cities to find a single phone number.
I thought of the contrast of the long-winded, connect-the-dots research and subterfuge with today’s always online, tuned-in access that we have available. I truly believe that while all my screen time helps me in so many ways from research to work to finding a recipe, I think it also results in a loss of collaboration and personal connections.
While on our spring break cruise with five high school girl and moms, the cell phones and iPads were locked in the safe. After our initial electronic withdrawal phase, the girls said they didn’t miss them. Going “old school”, they were able to spend time turning other teens into friends, make advance plans where to meet them after meals, have focused time with each other and us without scrolling through social site pictures of their classmates’ scattered vacations.
The majority of our group consciously stayed off-the-grid while on our trip. The time was spent connecting those around us, not watching on social media what others were doing, comparing experiences, or working.
That focused offline time is something I shall try to incorporate into my life going forward. I will try to turn off the online access for periods of the workday to remove distractions. Go old-school to forge ahead.
The journey continues.
C
P.S. Photo credits. From movie, my.xfinifty.com. Safe, from my photo archives, 2012.
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I love that you did this for the girls (and yourself). It’s true — I can’t even imagine how our lives would have been different if we had the internet when we were growing up. I doubt I would have spent so much time down by the creek, or just hanging out in the grass in the backyard.
Thanks Sharon. I totally agree that having those phones online all the time limits some exploration of the non-tech selves for our kids. Though we do give them more freedom because they can be in touch. Turn it off is my new occasional motto—I think this was only the 2nd time I have been without online access since opening my biz 18 years ago.